Would u marry for money ?? are your naked eyes deceiving ???
Nowadays as u walk down the street, u see guys dat aint good looking with a good looking gal. Have u ever give it some thought ?? Well , wat i personally think that Singaporean gals are materlistic. 80 percent of the gals will go for money than love. hey dun get offended gals. i said 80 percent . The other 20 percent are rare. All tis are not lies but are facts. Ask any SG guys between 20-40, they will tell u the same thing. Dat is the fact of Singapore life. When u jus flash ur " GUCCI" wallet on the table , gals will be staring at you. U nv noe it. I met some ppl who are like that. When u ask an age 17 gal whether money is important they say "NO". WHY ?? cos they really haven gone thru life yet . Money is so hard to earn. U have to earn from ur blood and sweat. But its different when u ask a 21 yrs. HEY i ask alot. Guess wat ?? mostly sae " yes , money". even my past collegues saes " i hope to find a BF dat has a car , cash etc...".
While i was doin sales , i met alot of customers that the guy is so blady old and the gal is yung but me and my collegues can see that that guy is loaded. NO SHIT alright. We take a good look at the watch he wears. The way a rich person speaks is different. U can sae im wrong. But u can feel it. There are alot of gals who go for money den love itself. Its not wrong cos singapore society needs 5Cs to survive. Ask any gals and guys at the age of 19-45 , they will tell u that they think money is a NEED. i myself think so too .
But what makes good marriage ??? "Love" or " simply for the love for $" ??? And are ur naked eyes deceiving that a guy before marriage and after marriage ?? So who is the winner ?? Gals marry guys for money ?? Guys before marriage have some motive ?? who's the winner ?? Or simply said Do working woman love guys to be smart ?? smart makes money
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Are SG Girls Materialistic? July 3, 2007
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A comment here states that Singaporean women are materialistic. I wonder if the progress of this country has made the women materialistic. It has often been in discussion that men and women are equal of some sorts. Women should be able to work and still clean the house after a hard day’s work while the men should be able to enjoy the warm home-cooked meal after a hard day’s work. Now that women are able to study, women should be doing what men does, here, men complete NS and so must the women too. Then they will not complain about sissy men and all.
Just last week, a colleague was stating the cost of his wedding, estimated to be 25k for the dinner itself. The cost of the flat and renovation have not been factored in yet. Why such a high cost? Parents prefer 9 course dinner. Hotels and restaurants charge peak rates for dinners held during the weekends. That’s where they rake in the money.
Although being a filthy rich guy may make you “hotter” than those handsome but poor guys, it doesn’t make sure the girl stays with you if you ain’t got the character. Mindsets here have not changed by leaps and bounds. Guys still have to pay for the majority of the wedding, it’s no wonder the marrying age is getting older and why girls are dating those old men with cash to spare. They don’t get married too old. That’s for some girls.
A materialistic girl is someone who will stay with that guy only when he can lavish gifts and expensive holiday trips on her. Once, he hits a low, expect her to disappear. This post, however, degrades the guy’s perspective.
http://twinkythots.wordpress.com/2007/07/03/are-sg-girls-materialistic/
JUST A QNS ??? WHAT IS MARRIAGE ?? HOW DO U MAINTAIN A RELATIONSHIP DAT LAST ?? JUS FOR MONEY THAT WILL LAST , IS THAT SO , WHY ??
I mayb wrong but wat i seen is alot ...So gals and Guys give Comments ...jus leave ur comments right down ..
When a marriage comes to a point where both parties wanna win each other in a situation whereby they can hurt each other physically and mentally in the process is no longer a healthy marriage... sitting down and trashing things out should be the way to handle it.. women are usually the ones to break down first in the process because man would ran away from the problem and unknowingly hurt the girl that needs comfort after the quarrel.. Sometimes a hug is enough to solve everything but man are always that stubborn to lose their pride..
ReplyDeleteNobody is perfect and make mistakes when we are young and insensible.. To make a marriage really last is a lot of tolerance and forgiving and mutual respect towards each other..
Talking about girls who expected the 5Cs they have their thinking about what they wanted in life and to them money and materialistic things do matter to them due to their upbringing.. But some girls can be easily contented with having a loving husband and a beautiful child to live their lifetime.. There is always two sides of a coin we can be either one.. Every girl is different and i believe somewhere in this world there will always be a guy and a girl who will fit into each others life.. But some girls turn very negative towards a relationship after a bad fall and become what they weren't like before..
I feel that if you get a girl that really suit your character is everything that matters.. It means being happy together, doing things together without having to say what you want to do and he can read your mind understand how you feel without you saying a word..Doing the same things both of us had, and it's almost everything we had in common and enjoying it.. Unconditional caring no matter how tired i am or he is.. It's like it's all so perfect and meant to be..I had it but i lost it due to my immature thinking or temper that lead my head..
To me no matter how poor the man i love is i will stand by him throughout my lifetime as the marriage vows are made willingly by us at that point of time.. Provided he love me and don't hurt me all the time by any means.. If it comes to a point where that girl has given up on talking things out about the marriage is when she has given up and is prepared to leave you at any point of time...
Man always said they will change and they only changed for a period of time.. After which they revert back to their old self.. If he wasn't married with a baby i would say he is not 100% to blame because he has no responsibility..But to a man who is married and has a baby does not play a part in parenthood i call that an irresponsible and immature guy.. It's not worth keeping him making yourself suffer..
A women having to carry a baby to term for 10 months is not an easy thing.. having to give birth to it is also another extremely painful and torturing process.. Given a husband who has witness the delivery of his child should be more caring and have a sense of responsibility but i am surprised that i met a guy actually was cold blooded.. Till only recently my heart totally died off him and i just concentrate only the best i want for my baby..
Decision in making the right choice is very important.. Handsome guys does not mean good guys or responsible.. sometimes i feel the not so good looking ones are a far cry from the one with good looks and in fact they are always the much better ones who care for the family more.. Out of 100% only 10% of such guys exist.. the one with looks and a good character.. i met one before but i lost it due to my stubborn temper and not sorting things out.. So if you found one you treasured a lot i feel that pride is the last thing u should have in your mind.. If i could turn back time i would rather lose my pride then lost someone who loved me so much and cared for me so so much... Till today i still think about him and still miss him that much.. but it's a past now.. I have to learn from that..
Not all women are materialistic. Please don't sterotype women based on the few people whom you see.
ReplyDeleteMost would be contented to be with someone who has a stable income. The other half doesn't have to earn 10k per month, just enough to feed the family plus some spare cash will do.
Well , i agree , some women arent material , but dose women whose char are material , are dose smart woman , they know it..they are smart.
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